Nowadays, people are living with their duality, and guess what? No one has ever questioned that. Quite inappropriate if you ask, yet we all live with dual personalities.
Duality is the problem:
Seldom it happens, that people are so concerned about their self-esteem that they bottled up their emotions and they don’t want anyone’s pity or better sympathy. Suppressing emotions leads to mental health disasters like multiple personality disorder. Yet we are not talking about that duality, we are here to convey about the mask we put on our faces to avoid pity.
People-pleaser:
A people-pleaser is a person who puts others’ needs ahead of their own. This type of person is highly attuned to others and often seen as agreeable, helpful, and kind, but people-pleasers can also have trouble advocating for themselves, which can lead to a harmful pattern of self-sacrifice or self-neglect.
Know your worth:
Self-love, defined as “love of self” or “regard for one’s own happiness or advantage”, has been conceptualized both as a basic human necessity and as a moral flaw, akin to vanity and selfishness, synonymous with amour-propre, conceitedness, egotism, narcissism, etc. We should accept ourselves just the way we are. Because if that mask is removed, people you love will leave you and in the end, you will be left entirely and utterly alone.
Individual or general:
We have three classes in the society:
Upper class
Middle class
Lower classes
We are going to focus on the middle class as the upper ones are busy in their lives with their money and resources and the lower ones in their problems. They always mask their problems with their so-called perfect life, because they don’t have time for themselves. What we have to do is drag ourselves out of these social classes and change always starts with one’s own self.
Adakari Hai Lazim Misl e Aab by Fatima Rasool
Your worth: Dual Faced?
Nowadays, people are living with their duality, and guess what? No one has ever questioned
that. Quite inappropriate if you ask, yet we all live with dual personalities.
Duality is the problem:
Seldom it happens, that people are so concerned about their self-esteem that they bottled up their emotions and they don’t want anyone’s pity or better sympathy. Suppressing emotions leads to mental health disasters like multiple personality disorder.
Yet we are not talking about that duality, we are here to convey about the mask we put on our faces to avoid pity.
People-pleaser:
A people-pleaser is a person who puts others’ needs ahead of their own. This type of person is highly attuned to others and often seen as agreeable, helpful, and kind, but people-pleasers can also have trouble advocating for themselves, which can lead to a harmful
pattern of self-sacrifice or self-neglect.
Know your worth:
Self-love, defined as “love of self” or “regard for one’s own happiness or advantage”, has been conceptualized both as a basic human necessity and as a moral flaw, akin to vanity and selfishness, synonymous with amour-propre, conceitedness, egotism, narcissism, etc. We should accept ourselves just the way we are. Because if that mask is removed, people you love will leave you and in the end, you will be left entirely and utterly alone.
Individual or general:
We have three classes in the society:
We are going to focus on the middle class as the upper ones are busy in their lives with their money and resources and the lower ones in their problems. They always mask their problems with their so-called perfect life, because they don’t have time for themselves. What we have to do is drag ourselves out of these social classes and change always starts with one’s own self.
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