Ramadan is not just a month; it is a feeling, a fragrance of memories that never fades. “Childhood Ramadan and Us” reflects the innocent joys of our early years and compares them with the responsibilities that shape our present lives. It reminds us how time changes our priorities, yet the spirit of Ramadan remains constant.
In childhood, Ramadan felt magical. Waking up for suhoor was an adventure. Our mothers would gently call us, and we would struggle to open our sleepy eyes, feeling proud to be part of something so special. Even if we were too young to fast the entire day, we would try—sometimes fasting half the day, sometimes breaking it early—but always with excitement.
The day seemed longer back then, yet lighter. We counted the hours until iftar, watched the clock, and waited eagerly for the adhan. The dining table was not just about food; it was about togetherness. Samosas, fruit chaat, pakoras—each dish felt like a celebration. The joy was simple, pure, and shared with family.
Taraweeh prayers were another beautiful memory. Standing in the mosque beside elders, or praying at home while trying not to get distracted, gave us a sense of belonging. We may not have understood the deeper meanings of the Qur’an then, but we felt the peace.
Responsibilities and RealityAs we grow older, Ramadan changes. The magic is still there, but it is layered with responsibility. Now we are the ones preparing suhoor. We think about groceries, cooking, cleaning, work deadlines, and family duties. The long days are no longer just about waiting for iftar; they are about balancing tasks while fasting.
Our priorities shift. Instead of counting the hours to eat, we count tasks to complete. Sometimes, exhaustion replaces excitement. We may miss the carefree spirit of childhood, when someone else carried the burdens for us.Yet adulthood also brings a deeper understanding. We now comprehend the value of fasting—not just as hunger and thirst, but as patience, self-discipline, gratitude, and empathy for those in need. We understand the Qur’an more deeply. We realize that Ramadan is not only about food and family gatherings, but about transforming our hearts.
Time changes us, but the essence of Ramadan does not change. As children, we experienced its joy. As adults, we experience its purpose.Childhood Ramadan was about excitement; adult Ramadan is about intention. Back then, we enjoyed the blessings; now we are responsible for preserving and passing them on. We are the ones who create memories for the next generation.
This reflection invites us to pause. In the rush of responsibilities, let us not lose the spirit that once made Ramadan so special.Let us value this month before it slips away. Let us spend meaningful time with our parents, whose efforts once made our Ramadan beautiful. If they are still with us, cherish them. If they are not, pray for them. Let us strengthen our bonds with siblings, spouses, and children.Most importantly, let us strengthen our relationship with our Lord. Ramadan is an opportunity—a chance to return, to realign, to renew our faith. The innocent joy of childhood can return, but this time with awareness and gratitude.Ramadan will continue to come and go. Childhood will not return—but its lessons can live within us. The question is not how Ramadan has changed. The real question is: Have we allowed Ramadan to change us?
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