Khamosh Lehjey by Gul Aatikah

 Science and accent:

Let’s discuss how our words effect us. How strong impact does the positive and negative behaviour have on us?

A Japanese man called Dr. Maseru Emote performed an experiment a few years ago. He put some water in different Petri dishes. He then exposed the water to different words and emotions and froze them.

Can you believe that! The petri on which positive words were exposed to water showed beautiful crystals. They looked like beautiful snowflakes. While on the other hand, the water that had been exposed to hate had crystals that had frozen into no real structure and ended up looking like murky blobs of water. 

What do you think of it? A human body consists of 60% water. We should not pollute this water with harsh words. We should be kind to one another.

Ups and downs of life:

None of us can stay happy for lifetime. There are many ups and downs in a man’s life. Sometimes we are sad and sometimes we are cheerful. But we should never loose hope rather we shall stay determined and hope for a positive outcome. We shall pass the hardship with patience and thankfulness.

Behind the masks:

We have no authority to judge anyone.

We do not know what bruises are smiling faces hiding behind them.

We cannot judge a person for his rude or aggressive behavior.

We may have no idea about what past have they suffered from and what consequences have made them this rude and arrogant.

We literally have no idea about what one is suffering from. Our harsh words can become their mental  breakdown while sometimes our good words can encourage them.

The best in man:

The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The most beloved people to Allah are

Those who are most beneficial to people.”

If a person is suffering from a negative habit, such as drinking alcohol,dacoity , adultery and any negative act for the purpose of murder and looting, then he can give up this negative habit, only with a gentle tone, good behavior.

But what happens if you express your hatred?

Then that person will deteriorate further and your respect will disappear from his heart and he will also hate you. If you call him bad, he will become even stubborn and will say it. “If so, then so be it.”

Quran says:

{ وَلاَتَنْسَوُا الْفَضْلَ بَیْنَـکُمْ}

( البقرۃ:۲۳۷)

“Be kind and courteous to one another”.